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Charamba-charamba / pfuma yamai haikanirwi

Shona Definition

Kana munhu akaedza chinhu chikaramba, haafaniri kuchimanikidzira nokuti chingazoguma chomupindukira.

English Translation

Leave off going after what cannot be had: the harm outweighs any good, and bitter regret is what it leaves you with.

Cultural Context

“In the cited passage a chief uses the saying on finding there is nothing further he can do.”

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This is a variant of

Chakona-chakona / amai havaroodzwi

Some things simply cannot be done, and no amount of insisting will change that — just as one's own mother cannot be given away in marriage. Accept the impossible for what it is.